Husband demands wife perform oral sex on him
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One of the sisters is asking, saying that she is a practising young woman who got married six months ago. (She says) her husband demands she suck his penis, and she asks if this is permissible or not?
All praise is due to Allaah (alone). There is no doubt that
(the request of) this practise from the husband of the questioner
is a disgusting practise and obviously disliked. It also undermines
the (good) manners between the husband and wife, and could
possibly be a cause for (each partner) disliking (the other)
and (leading to) separation (divorce).
was one of the wives of the Messenger of Allaah (sal-Allaahu
`alayhe wa sallam),
and it has been narrated on her authority that:
`alayhe wa sallam) did not see this of her and she did
not see this of him)).
(i.e. they did not see each other's private parts, even though
it is permisible).
regards the ruling about this, then the least that can be
said about it is that it is disliked, and Allaah knows best.
'Abdullaah ibn Munee'
Fataawa Muhimmah li-Nisaa. al-Ummah - Page 154
The basic ruling regarding the wife seeking pleasure of her
husband's penis is that of permissibility, however, that which
is feared is that this act may lead to possible oral intake
of sperm or prostatic fluids. The Hanaabilah have indicated
the permissibility of a wife kissing her husband's penis,
as is mentioned in ((al-Insaaf)) of al-Maardeenee [Volume
8, Page 33], and this is the opinion of Ibn 'Aqeel and other
than him. Also, Asbagh from the Maalikiyyah has indicated
the permissibility of a man kissing his wife's vagina as is
mentioned in ((Tafseer al-Qurtubee)) [Volume 12, Page 231].
Certain cases of mouth cancer appear to be caused by a virus that can be contracted during oral sex, media reported, quoting a new Swedish study.
People who contract a high-risk variety of the human papilloma virus, HPV, during oral sex are more likely to fall ill with mouth cancer, according to a study conducted at the Malmo University Faculty of Odontology in southern Sweden.
"You should avoid having oral sex," dentist and researcher Kerstin Rosenquist, who headed the study, told Swedish news agency TT.
HPV is a wart virus that causes many cervical cancers, including endometrial cancer (in the uterus).
Comparing 132 patients with mouth cancer with a control group of 320 healthy people, Rosenquist found that 36 percent of the cancer patients were carriers of HPV while only one percent of the control group had the virus.
The main factors that contribute to mouth cancer, most commonly contracted by middle aged and older men, are smoking and drinking alcohol, scientists agree.
"But in recent years the illness has been on the rise among young individuals and we don't know why. But one could speculate that this virus (HPV) is one of the factors," Rosenquist said.
Her findings confirm other international studies in recent years.