Sexual
talk between the husband and wife over the telephone
*Please appropriately reference
this fatwa to: www.fatwa-online.com, thankyou!*
Question: Is it permissible for the husband
and wife to talk about sex over the telephone (and by doing
so) they arouse each other until one of them or both of them
have an orgasm [making sure not to use the hand because it
is haraam]. We do this because my husband travels alot and
we only (get to) see each other every four months?
Response:
There
is no harm (in this). Yes this is permissible.
Question:
And (is this permissible) even with the use of the hand?
Response:
There is some (element of) uncertainty in (the issue of)
using the hand; And it is not permissible except if he
fears falling into adultery.
Question:
(So) there is no harm (in doing so) without using the hand?
Response:
Yes, there is no harm (in doing so) without using the hand
(while) he imagines he is with her. And it is befitting
upon them both that they are careful no-one listens to
their speech or spies upon them. And Allaah is the Most
Knowledgeable.
Shaykh
Ibn ‘Uthaymeen
Fataawa Mu'aasarah - Page 81
al-Mowsoo'ah - 4807
|